Although boundaries are essential to a healthy friendship, some people set them more than others, at risk of giving the impression that they are not in an actual relationship.
eIn love as in friendship, some tend to be more committed than others. If anyone is familiar with Fear of being in a relationship, it seems that this phenomenon It is also possible in friendshipAnd that would explain a lot of things. Phobia of courtship is Fear and anxiety about approaching another person And making decisions in the context of a relationship with long-term effects.
Manifestations and origins of clash phobia
We all know that friend who always cancels plans at the last minute, leaves us stuck for days and disappears at the slightest inconvenience…when these practices become a habit, we can wonder if this Nobody wants to be right Friend with us or not. It can be multiple signs Detecting the phobia of commitment : If the person is severe Demanding love as in friendship, if so Independent to the extreme, if she has A large number of ordinary friends, bone None of them are close, if only present during the “honeymoon” phase of the relationship, but Exit at the first problem or if a person has Difficult to communicate It is difficult to access.
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In an Instagram post, psychologists Jane Anders and Tahira Adel identified some The causes of this phobia, like experience Including harmful past relationships betrayalAnd abuse or give up, Suffers fromworry or to have attachment disorder. Commitment phobia is not inevitable and can be resolved through adequate self-action. Acknowledging your fears and focusing more on the pleasures of the relationship is a good start.
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